Tribe Over Person
đ Your Customer Isnât Your Only AudienceâMarket to Their Tribe
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đ Your Customer Isnât Your Only AudienceâMarket to Their Tribe
Most brands focus on one person: the buyer. They craft messages for that singular, target customer. But humans are social creatures influenced by friends, family, coworkers, and even online communities. Your customerâs decision isnât made in isolationâitâs shaped by the world around them.
If youâre only marketing to the buyer, youâre missing the bigger opportunity: influence their tribe, and you influence them.
Why Marketing to the Surrounding Circle Matters
People seek validation. No one wants to be the only person wearing the âweird new brandâ or using a product their peers would mock. When a buyerâs network validates a choice, the decision feels saferâand thatâs powerful.
Imagine someone considering a new supplement. They might hesitate⌠until a friend says, âOh, Iâve heard of that!â That tiny affirmation shatters doubt. This isnât just marketingâitâs social engineering.
How to Influence the Tribe (Without Targeting Them Directly)
1. Create Conversation Starters, Not Just Ads
People share what makes them look clever, funny, or insightful. Create content that sparks conversations among non-buyers whoâll influence your buyers.
Tactic: Pose provocative questions or unexpected insights:
⢠âWould you let your friend use your toothbrush?â (For a hygiene product)
⢠âWhy do we still follow outdated skincare rules from the 1950s?â (For a beauty brand)
The goal isnât to sellâitâs to infiltrate conversations where your product naturally becomes part of the dialogue.
2. Market to the Skeptics and Haters
When people oppose something publicly, their friends jump inâoften defending it. Controversy breeds engagement, which spreads your message beyond your target audience.
Tactic: Run ads or posts addressing common objections head-on.
Example: âExpensive? Our fans think youâre worth it.â Critics will comment. Supporters will defend. Algorithms will amplify. Everyone wins.
3. Target the Bystanders
Some people will never buyâbut theyâll influence those who do. For example, parents may not buy the product, but their kidsâ enthusiasm sways them.
Tactic: If your product targets adults, create content thatâs entertaining for their kids. If you sell tech for professionals, make shareable memes their friends outside the industry enjoy. When the network talks, the buyer listens.
4. Make Ownership a Status Symbol
People donât just buy productsâthey buy how it makes them look to others. The goal? Turn your product into something people brag about.
Tactic: Create challenges, limited editions, or âinsiderâ communities that make people proud to share. When non-buyers see others flaunting it, they want in.
Final Takeaway: Sell to the Circle, Not Just the Customer
The buyer is just one piece of the puzzle. Influence their tribeâthe validators, skeptics, and bystandersâand you wonât just win a sale. Youâll spark movements, conversations, and social proof that no ad budget can buy.
When the world around your customer talks about you, choosing your brand becomes the obvious choice.
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Thanks for reading this edition! Keep pushing boundaries, testing ideas, and staying inspired. See you in the next edition with more ways to ignite your marketing success. đĽ°